 Finally, the most comprehensive men's
guide to dating ever written --
authored by a man, for men.
Twenty-seven chapters of relevant,
practical advice presented in a lighthearted, entertaining and highly readable style.
 Dating. No one is writing about the subject like Bob Wray, author of A Man's
Field Guide to Dating. Long ago, dating was a young man's activity. Not today. People
marry later and have lots of relationships before settling down. Second and third
marriages are not uncommon. Many men drift through several periods of dating throughout
their lives.
This helpful book, written by Bob Wray, a kind of All-American Everyman, provides a
collection of ideas and advice culled from the dating experiences of many men -- and
women. Its aim is to help men develop social relationships and meet and enjoy the company
of women.
Proven strategies for improving your love
life:
 How to overcome
shyness and rejection - The best -- and worst -- places to meet women
- Recognizing women who are interested in you
- How to ask for a date
- What women are really looking for
- Self-improvement tactics to increase your chances
- Dating behavior
Some Dating Advice from Bob
No magic, no secrets
Stop looking for love. It doesn't work that way. Focus on your self-improvement. Extend
yourself to others. Present the best person you can to those you encounter. Love will find
you.
Are you a jerk?
Women are used to dealing with jerks. They have "jerk radar" and special
jerk-avoidance strategies. They discuss this among themselves all the time. If you are a
jerk or have jerk-like tendencies, you are doomed until you change. It's just that simple.
Flirting 
You should be flirting at every opportunity. Flirting is all about conversation. The way
to a woman's heart is through her ear. Hence, you need to speak to as many women as
possible every day. You are not rude, aggressive, threatening -- just friendly. A bit of
friendly small talk never hurt anyone.
Don't live for love, love to live
You were happy before you met her and if things don't work out you will be happy
afterwards. So this is the secret. It's not a Porsche, ripped abs or the right pair of
sunglasses. You are a pleasure to be with because you are basically happy with yourself
and your life.Things are just better when you are around.
Meeting Her Friends (and Family)
When meeting her friends and family, remember, you are about to be put on display. Listen
twice as much as you talk; drink very little, if at all; and try to keep the evening
reasonably short. All you have to do is relax, let her do the work and avoid stupid
mistakes.
Friendship
If you can be successful at becoming friends with a woman you have the basis for building
a relationship with any woman. You need to develop the skills and have the experience.
Besides, you can never have too many friends.
ISBN 0-9669723-0-9 275 pages
$17.95 US
© 1999 Bob Wray
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